Now that I’m in a stable relationship and have been for a few years, instead of getting rid of any sex toys that I owned, me and my partner enjoy using them to enhance our sex life. We now have a box full (quite a large box actually) of sex toys and sex aids of all shapes and sizes, from cock rings and G-Spot vibrators to double penetration dildos and butt plugs, and we use them alone as well as with each other. A lot of people feel that it may make their partners feel inadequate, or make them think that they’re unable to fulfil your needs, but in our experience we find that it really enhances our sex life and makes it a lot easier to talk about what we like and dislike.

Having used various sex toys over the course of a few years, and I have used my fair share, both on my own and with my partner. I believe that only good things can come from injecting a little novelty and some surprises into your sex life. Nowadays there are numerous sex shops in almost every city all over the world and even more sex toy stores online. So it’s not very hard finding sex toys, the chances are that you’ll have a least one sex toy shop close to where you live, if you don’t or are maybe a little shy about going into a shop and purchasing a sex toy yourself, there are plenty of online sex toy stores to choose from (like ours for example).  Where you can find a whole world of erotic accessories such as sexy lingerie, vibrators, dildos, fleshlights and bondage equipment.

I find that sex can solve most problems between a man and a woman, so why not spice it up a little by using some sex toys?

Have fun.

Bella.

You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.

Michael Webb, author of the best selling THE ROMANTIC’S GUIDE,  has said, “If you’re shy or embarrassed and even if you’ve tried everything but failed miserably — anybody can add more fire to the bedroom!” 

Here are five really simple ways to make your lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate — (Even starting tonight):

1. Find your partner’s hidden zones…

I call these hidden zones because many people do not realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

2. Set a romantic mood…

People often think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is too cliche. Are they kidding! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.

Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so cliche because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

3. Give them a sensual massage…

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further and give your partner a sensual massage that makes them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.

Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by having them slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss, caress and slowly transition under the sheets where a massage of another kind can take place.

And no, you do not need years of study to give a great massage. Just grab some candles and music, and bless your partner with an experience they’ll never forget.

4. Please your partner with more oral sex…

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. Not to mention it is great for men who want to relax without pressure to perform, and for women who cannot reach orgasm from only intercourse. In short, it is an important part of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and women.

LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straight away when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation.

GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet around the clitoris with your tongue.

5. Constantly explore and try new things…

If I could only give you one piece of advice for better lovemaking, it would be this: become adventurous and creative.

Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a game.

Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust, but it is HOW you do it and the way you make your partner feel that really counts.

By dedicating time to finding new things, you can turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to come.

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- Kathleen Falken

Remember at the beginning of your relation how strong was the desire you felt one for another ? How a single look, a simple move would make you shiver ? There is a word for that : passion.

Today ? Like 99% of lovers living together, as years pass, passion starts to decline. Routine slowly but surely, like a deadly virus, takes it’s place and can ruin your couple.

Wow, what a terrible scene ! Let’s get rid of it immediately.

The positive thing is you want to see your love life improving, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this article right ? So follow me and be sure to apply what is written here. There’s nothing better than concrete when it comes to sex. 1. Have a look !

Are you still looking one at each other ? That’s a simple advice hey ? Now think about it. Do you have these little stars sparkling in your eyes when you gently cover your partner’s whole body from head to toes ? Do you mind if I cough ? Take the test ! I insist you have to be romantic in everything you do. It’s useless trying to seduce if you act like a beast. It can be truly exciting but at this point your couple needs softness. So, you’re both reading in the sofa (nice books but wouldn’t it be great to have some sex on the same sofa ?) Take your eyes off the book and look at your other “half”, slowly, very slowly. Start with the head, lips included, and calmly lower your eyes. Neck, shoulders, upper arms, breast, tummy, sex, thighs, hands, legs, feet… No matter what happens. Just do it. She’s in the kitchen, look at her. He’s watching tv, gaze. Remember, slowly, gently with tenderness in the eyes. Opening a little your lips would also be a good idea. Doing this in public places (when having a coffee for example) is also terribly exciting…

ok, on to step 2.2. Speaking is great too.

Use the power of words. A couple of blunt sentences whispered at the other’s ears.

Imagine having dinner with friends. Your lover approaches and says “I’m so hot I want you now.”

She’s so close you can feel her tensed breast. He’s so excited, you can see his sex growing. And please, don’t stop looking. (check tip number1 above). Use words. The more they are unexpected, the more exciting they will be. Phone calls are fantastic. Whether at home or at the office, if you start a hot conversation, you’ll see how amazing the effect will be. You will go wild !3. Writing

A Love letter is fine. If it contains erotic words, you multiply it’s power by 1000. Now how should you deliver the letter ? You can put it on the bed, or, if you can make it, send her the letter, privately, at work, using a courrier. Everything is fine as long as it’s unusual. Something like “hey, I wrote this letter for you, here it is” should be avoided. You’re special, your partner is too, so do something special. (and exciting)4. Romantism

Restaurant, Flowers and Lingerie are my favorite.

So this number 4 is probably for you gentlemen. Buy lingerie online if you feel shy but the most exciting thing to do is buying lingerie together. Imagine what could happen in the fitting room…

Send her flowers and invite her for a great dinner. The restaurant can become a magic place for erotic games. Ask her to discreetly take her lingerie off. And both eat as if you were eating the other’s body, with sensuality.

Wow it’s getting hot in here.5. Take your camera

ho, ho, ho. That’s terribly exciting. Whether you want to take pictures or create your own erotic movie, acting in front of your private camera can be fantastic. Remember : sensuality. If you’re a woman, why not film or take shots of yourself and let your lover watch them when he comes home. Your mobile phone can be extremely useful. Take the movie and send him (or her), stripping & caressing. There are numerous ways of playing exciting games with your image.

Ok that’s it for today. I hope you’re as excited as I was when writing this article. 6. A last suggestion.

You will find many exciting tips and advices at Michael Webb’s Lovemaking Site. He was featured in media countless times. From CBS to the Oprah show. Take a look, you’ll learn a lot.

Thanks for reading.

Stay tuned for other tips.

And after you applied them, keep me updated !

To your Sexual Success !

Christophe Tissier

1. Find your partner’s “hidden” zones

I call these “hidden” zones because many people
don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the
body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the
lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are
also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed,
can drive your partner wild and even intensify
their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair
are all really sensitive areas that love to be
stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay
caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner.

2. Set a romantic mood

People often think that using candles, music,
incense and even rose petals to set the mood of
your lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding!
Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.

Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone
went to all the trouble to create a special
lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years
to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people
enjoy it so much? Point made.
3. Give them a sensual massage

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further
and give your partner a sensual massage that makes
them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make
it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.

Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by
having them slowly undress during the massage. Then
kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the
sheets” where a massage of another kind can take
place.

And no, you don’t need years of study to give a
great massage. Just grab some candles and music,
and bless your partner with an experience they’ll
never forget.
4. Please your partner with more oral sex

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to
strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It
takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody
have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s
great for men who want to relax without pressure to
perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from
only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part
of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and
women.

LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on
the penis straight away when, actually, they should
start with some playful teasing and soft touches.
This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it
heightens his anticipation.

GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their
tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the
vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should
lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip
to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet
around the clitoris with your tongue.
5. Constantly explore and try new things

If I could only give you one piece of advice for
better lovemaking, it would be this: become
adventurous and creative.

Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except
your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it
somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a
game.

Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no
matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,
but it’s HOW you do it and the way you make your
partner feel that really counts.

By dedicating time to finding new things, you can
turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure
your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and
intimate for years to come.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:

500
Lovemaking Tips and Secrets