The Different Types of Sex Lubricants that You can Use Before enumerating the numerous benefits that you will get to enjoy by using sex lubricants, here is a quick definition of the term.  Basically, a sex lubricant is a specialized fluid which helps to reduce the friction with the vagina, anus or other body parts during masturbation or intercourse. Depending on the variant and brand of sex lubricant that you want to use, there are several types of lubes that you can purchase. First, there are water-based sex lubricants. As the name implies, these lubricants are water-soluble and are one of the most popular types of lubricants in the market. Second, there are oil-based lubricants which are not suitable for use with condoms or latex sex toys. Silicone-based lubricants provide that extra glide and are great to use with silicone sex toys.  Finally, there are speciality lubricants which cause a warming or tingling sensation to increase the pleasure that you will feel during sex.

A Wide Array of Benefits from Using Sex LubricantsSo what are the benefits of using sex lubricants in the bedroom? Here’s a quick look at the advantages that you will get to enjoy by using this particular type of fluid:

- Sex lubes help with women whose vagina does not produce enough natural lubrication.

- Sex lubes up the ante when it comes to the sensations that you will feel during foreplay.

- If you’re preparing for some anal play or if you plan to use your collection of sex toys, sex lubricants are a must-have with you in the bedroom.

- Speciality lubricants produce a warming, tingling sensation which can tickle your senses during foreplay or while engaged in the act itself. With all these advantages and more, why else would you say no to using sex lubricants?

You are not alone.

Most couple who are claiming that they have great sex life with their partners are either lying or living in a fantasy sex life. So do not panic if you all your friends seem to have perfect sexual relationship with their partners.

It is normal.

Not having sex as you and your partner usually do during the first few years of your relationship is normal. There is no reason to panic as both of you are just comfortable with each other’s company. This means that sex is not that necessary to make or build a connection with your partner.

Quality, not quantity, is more important.

Do not be bothered with how often you and your partner make love. What is important is whenever you guys do, it is satisfying and rewarding for both of you. Which is better: regular yet boring sex or not-so-frequent but amazing and lasting sex?

Intimacy is not all about sex.

Some couples have this thinking that they can only achieve intimacy with their partners when they are having a great sex life. This is wrong as intimacy is not all about having amazing sexual relationship with your partner. Intimacy in partners can be seen by just simple yet touching gestures like holding hands or by spiritual connection such as sharing life’s hardships and joys. Yes, sex can do wonders in your relationship. But relationships are not just about sex.

Moreover, the following are some tips that can help you boost your sex life:

Open up.

Having a smooth communication with your partner is good. You two can benefit a lot in this aspect, especially in your sex life. Now, if you and your partner lack this aspect in your relationship, you might want to start to open up with your partner regarding your concerns about your sex life. This way, you’ll be able to express to your partner what you like and dislike in bed, same goes with your partner.

Flirting is fine.

To spice up your sex life, flirting can do the trick. See, people who claimed of having great sex are those who give time for flirting such as trading sexy phone calls or emails; quick sexy kisses; and teasing.

Think of sex as an act you and your partner should enjoy and not as obligation.

Sex should be enjoyed by couples and should not be regarded as something you owe to your partner. If you see sex as an obligation to your partner, your sex life will definitely come down into pieces.

We aim to bridge this gap with a communal sex tips community and mailing service whereby anyone can add a sex tip to the database. Each sex tip submitted should be adaptable to cater for Beginner couples, Randy couples and the Outrageously Naughty couples.

Anyone wanting to receive the naughty sex tips on a biweekly basis should join the Sex Toy Testers Sex Tips mailing list at the link at the bottom. A new sex tip will be emailed to you every fortnight on Friday, just in time to lives up your weekend.

The naughty sex tip will arrive with suggestions for all three categories, and you can choose which most appeals to you. Because one week you may like the beginners couples sex tip and a month later you may fancy trying an outrageously naughty sex tip and really have sex swinging from the chandelles! Pick and choose what ever takes your fancy, and if none appeal, write to us and tell us why and maybe submit a tip of your own.

The sex tips mailing service is completely free and you can unsubscribe at any time. The first sex tip will be sent out on Friday the 6th of January 2007, so spicing up your sex life could be your new years resolution. Why not sign up today, and while your about it, tell us a top trick that you and your lover used which really hotted up the moment and got you both going. Don’t worry, we would never reveal your identity.

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So, if you’re looking for a sexy thing to share with your partner, be sure, there is no other sex gear as couple-friendly as the sex toys and enhancers I want you to take a look at.For intercourse. We all know that it’s so easy for a couple’s sex life to get into a sexual rut and predictability. So if you are looking for something to add to your intercourse and spice up the things, vibrating cock rings and dildo harnesses will guarantee you a bit of zest. Cock rings are fun because many of them are designed to stimulate the wearer himself and his female partner. As well as cock rings, harnesses become more popular sex toys for couples. Of course, they are still met with a “no way” gasp. Anyway, harnesses are great tools too, especially for the couples which prefer to play with gender roles.For foreplay. Many of us do like mood setting and foreplay before sex. Although there are many types of foreplay, from my experience, a good foreplay becomes even better with some good accessories. And I insist that fingertip vibrators do rock. These mini sex toys are small and cute additions to oral foreplay, anal foreplay and mutual masturbation. I simply adore these small toy massagers and foreplay ticklers. Another way to play before sex is painting your lover’s body with edible and flavoring body paints! To get all in one, a couple may choose a nice lover’s kit, since these kits often contain different toys and items to enjoy.For sensual prelude. Slow, sensual, all-over body erotic massage. It’s about emotional connection through a sensual touch, so the erotic massage is one of my favorite foreplays ever. I’ve been giving my man a sensual massage for four years and every time it all ends up with “massaging” my pussy in and out. As for me, it’s so arousing when he is rubbing my shoulders, neck, sliding up-down my curves and breasts. Massaging my lower back and upper thighs just brings me to the edge of orgasm. No doubt, to give a really good massage you should use some all-natural massage oils and lotions. Most of them carry erotic fruity fragrances and warming effects to heat up the erogenous spots and relieve stiffness. By the way, massage therapists say that warming massage oils are fantastic for massaging concentrated areas as breasts, buttocks, thighs.For adopting new positions. Now you don’t want a massage, you don’t need something to add to your intercourse and foreplay, but you just want to get off and feel comfortable and safe when trying new positions? Have a look at great tools for lovemaking – sex swings. Sex swings (or love swings) are designed specifically for the purpose of sexual intercourse in which one partner is suspended (I’m sure you are smiling now) while the other moves freely. Sex swing is a “sex in the air” device that hangs from the ceiling or its own stand. The most common sex swings have supports for the back, another for the buttocks and stirrups for each leg! What is absolutely fantastic about sex swings (besides loads of fun) is that a sex swing allows a couple try unbelievable and unforgettable sexual positions by reducing the limitations of weight and gravity. I think any kind of sex support and sex furniture as Liberator shapes, body pillows, etc, are great things since they help a couple achieve positions they have only fantasized about and feel absolutely comfortable.For oral sex. Oral sex, most of us love it and nothing could be more enjoyable than a mix of oral sex techniques with some edible oral sex lubricants. Oral sex lubricants are great if they are made from good quality ingredients. Flavored lubricants are perfect for masking some unpleasant smells and tastes if there are such. And if there is not enough self-lubrication, oral sex lubricants again come to the rescue. Some couples consider lubricants as an interruption, because it takes time to squeeze a lubricant and then apply it, however, even the very act of lubricating your lover’s private part may be so intimate and sexy. We all know, sex is better when wetter.For anal sex. As with harnesses, anal sex and anal sex toys remain taboo. Of course, anal sex is not for every couple, but the thing is that anal sex and anal sex toys can be very enjoyable too, since there are many nerves and erogenous zones in our anus. That’s why many heterosexual couples engage in anal plays and use anal sex toys for additional stimulation and massage. Both men and women may enjoy anal stimulation, and what is more, many heterosexual men are especially aroused by getting their anus licked, fingered and filled with an anal sex toy! Sex toys like different butt plugs and anal beads, are great for adventurous couples who have a deeper bond and intimacy, and explore all the sides of their sexuality. Butt plugs and beads are fantastic for men and women who want to get extra buzz during sex, masturbation and foreplay. Many men wear butt plugs for stimulating the prostate, it leads to increasing sensations during sex. For a woman, wearing butt plugs during intercourse brings not only powerful orgasms to her, but also to her lover, because butt plug decreases the interior vaginal size allowing a man feel intense sensations while inside her.All things sexual help to enjoy each other’s body to the fullest. They make you become more sensitive and discover each other’s sexual energy, needs, responses. Thumbs-up from me to sex toys designed for couple use! If you haven’t tried a couple sex toy yet, my guess is that one day you’ll catch yourself wanting to test one from above.