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Make Women Hot for You: 10 Powerful Ways!

moderator — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 19:02:34 +0000

Writing a long list of media reviews, on lovemaking and sexual techniques of the experts (including books, courses, seminars, etc), I have compiled quite a healthy list of methods for my own, personal use. Call it, one of my “job benefits”. (Note: You can visit my Blogger blog, Blowing Diet Expert Love, to read much more about how to REALLY please a woman/women. See the Author Biography below this article.)

To help you on your road to becoming a “god” in the bedroom, here are 10 ways for “beginners” (and even “intermediates”), to vastly improve their performance (as judged by HER). For women, sensuality starts long BEFORE the bedroom – so let us begin there…

#10: Start with her sense of Smell.

It is a scientific fact, that women have a much more sensitive sense of smell, than men. So insure that you smell goooood.

And if you are one of those men, who cannot stand to wear cologne – get over it. The right cologne can literally TRIPLE the number of women interested in you.

How do you find the right cologne? Simple. Ask Women!

Walk into any cologne store, and ask a Female salesperson to let you sniff a few samples. Pick two you (and she) think smell good on you, then squirt one on the inside of each wrist.

Now spend the next hour walking up to women you would like to meet and asking them which scent they think smells good on you.

Don’t laugh. Not only will you be shocked at how receptive they will be to helping you; this is also a pretty damn good pickup opener.

#9: Always be a Sight to behold!

Sight is not as powerful an influence for women, as it is for men. However, what a woman sees when she looks at you, can turn her OFF. Not looking your best, is a great way to convince her that you are not her “type”.

Get a female friend to help pick out your “cruising” wardrobe. Alternately, just pickup a few of the leading men’s fashion magazines. (No, not Playboy – more like GQ.) Don’t worry – you don’t have to spend a fortune. As long as you create a “style” for yourself, that women find fashionable.

Note: Avoid clothes that scream “Loser!” to HER. Baseball caps worn backwards. Rings and Pins sticking out of your mouth, nose, ears, etc. And of course, the Worst: hip-hop “midget pants”. (Those low-hanging pants, that make you look four feet tall…)

Also, women notice DETAILS. That means you need great-looking shoes, and if you wear any jewelry at all, think “stylish” – not “garish”!

#8: Create a Taste sensation!

Women love to try new taste sensations. When you are out with her, be daring! Order something new for her. (Of course, you have tried it before, and you know it is great.)

If you find yourself desperate for ideas on this, stick with the two, “old reliables”: champagne & chocolate!

#7: The Sound of Sensuality.

Most men are surprised to learn that women can “hear” the voice of the “man of their dreams”, before they actually meet him. And for almost all women, that voice is the same. Deep. Slow. Sensual.

Practice lowering your speaking voice an octave or two. And speak s-l-o-w-e-r. Slow means “sexy” to women.

If you need a hint, watch some movies: Bond….. James… Bond…..

#6: Drive her WILD with your Touch.

If there is one complaint I heard from the many women I interviewed, it was that men move too fast, and touch too hard.

For women, a sensual touch is light, and slow. When you begin a “session” with her, start by touching her with the tips of your fingers. If you want to get her incredibly turned on, run your fingers “oh so gently” over her skin – everywhere. Avoid the “danger” areas (breast, butt, etc), but take a long, slow “tour” of her. She will LOVE it!

There are five, even MORE potent ways, to get her HOT for you, in the next article in this series (you can see the Author Biography below, for the blog site). The series continues on my blog: http://blowingdietexpertlove.blogspot.com

As a freelance journalist, David has had the opportunity to study many different methods of improving your sexual and sensual level of performance. To learn more about how to REALLY please a woman/women visit: Blowing Diet Expert Love
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Female Ejaculation

moderator — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 05:51:59 +0000

Does a woman ejaculate? The answer is a definite, yes. With proper stimulation of the Gspot women can ejaculate a fluid from ducts located around the urethra. It is located in the front wall of the vagina under the pubic bone. This is a spongy area two inches or more inside the yoni (vagina) — depending on the size of the yoni and the location of the clitoris. It is actually South Pole of the clitoris. Female ejaculation was documented in ancient China and India where the Goddess-spot massage was a common Tantric-sex technique. Tantric texts call the liquid produced amrita, or “sweet nectar.” It is a protein-based fluid, found to be chemically different from urine. It is believed to have great healing properties. This knowledge is slowly coming to the awareness of non-Tantric people like Dr. Mitchell Levine, a gynecologist/obstetrician at the Women Care clinic, in Arlington, who declares that women do ejaculate. He believes that the hush-hush aura around the subject does not help women or men. He believes that is should become common knowledge. Sexuality, and especially women’s sexuality, does not receive much attention in medical school. In fact, one female gynecologist approached for this story declined comment, admitting not to know enough about the subject. Our in so many other ways advanced western culture is badly informed about human sensuality. Medical encyclopedias still do not mention female ejaculation. There is some information, however, on The Complete Guide to Women’s Health. The quantity of amrita is not indicative of how much the woman enjoys her release. Therefore, please men don’t make it an issue. Some woman I’ve been working with say they experience intense pleasurable feeling of release and often ejaculate three to nine times or more during one session of sex, each ejaculatory orgasm giving them more pleasure than the previous one. However, the experience of female ejaculation varies from woman to woman. Some dribble a small amount of fluid; others soak the sheets. Some women get concerned that they’re urinating, and they need to be reassured that this is not the case. It is amrita they secrete, not urine. In fact amrita does not smell or taste like urine. The G-spot itself has been a subject of controversy since its “discovery” in 1944 by gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg. The “G” in the gspot stands for Granfenberg. In the ’60s, sexologists Masters and Johnson announced that female orgasms occurred primarily through stimulation of the clitoris, not the vagina, where the Gspot is found. The G Spot (Holt, Rinehart, and Winston), a 1982 book by Beverly Whipple, Alice Ladas, and John Perry, refuted this claim and provides ample evidence that the g spot exists. My colleague, Dr. Gary Schubach, wrote a very enlightening thesis on the g spot. You can find it at http://www.doctorg.com. Some feminists fear that widespread knowledge about female ejaculation will burden women with one more “trick” they must master in bed to feel fully orgasmic. While this is a true concern, I think that withholding knowledge is not the right approach. Educating women about their birthright to full enjoyment of their bodies is a positive approach. Tantric approaches do not put any pressure on performance neither for males nor for females. In Tantra what is most important is the deep heart to heart connection and caring between the lovers while they experience the pleasure in lovemaking. The goal is connection and deepening intimacy, not performance.

Carla Tara is an internationally-acclaimed teacher of Tantra, who masterfully integrates a variety of tantric approaches with body-oriented psychotherapy. She has studied with Eastern masters Chitrabhanu, Dr. Mishra and Dr. Rajmani, as well as with Western teachers Lori Grace, Margo Anand, and Charles Muir and others. Her background as a yoga teacher, psychotherapist, dancer, and relationship counselor contributes to the strength and creativity of her work as a coach to both individuals and couples.
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The Sybian Orgasm Experience

moderator — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 23:56:52 +0000

Designed to give you pleasure for the rest of your life, the Sybian came into the marketplace about a decade ago. It is used mainly for sexual stimulation or gratification but for a lot of women, a Sybian orgasm has been their first orgasm ever. You will find a lot of free Sybian porn on the internet which will educate you on what the Sybian looks like and how it is meant to be used.The Sybian orgasm experience that many women have goes from first orgasm to becoming multi-orgasmic to poly-orgasmic. It has made them very enjoyable and responsive lovers. To watch the Sybian in action, check out the free Sybian porn videos. The vaginal insert of the Sybian rotates inside the vagina and the whole area which touches the vulva vibrates. Both these movements and the controls which help in increasing or decreasing the intensity of the vibrations and/or circular motions go a long way in helping the woman attain Sybian orgasm which normal sex and the usual sex toys are not capable of providing. Why you should use a Sybian:• Most women do not know the strength of their sexual capabilities. Sexual orgasms and responses are behavior that is learned. With the help of the Sybian’s stimulation which can be fully controlled ranging from feeble to strong, it is now possible for the woman to build up her potential to orgasm. • Multiple Sybian orgasms lead to multiple orgasms with your lover.• The Sybian gives you pleasure whenever you want for as long as you want. No need of looking wistfully at the free Sybian porn and wishing you could have it too.• If you are divorced and are not sure about sleeping with a new partner or you decide not to have a partner at all, you can use the Sybian without risk of contracting AIDS or any other sexually transmitted disease. Unlike other sex toys, the Sybian assumes the male form and can be mounted. • If your husband is frequently out if town on account of business and you miss the sexual intercourse, then you can satisfy your sexual appetite with this mechanical surrogate. It will take out the stress you go through on lonely nights and your husband, too, will feel happy knowing that your needs are being satisfied while he’s not at home.• It is the best sexual aid you could get giving you stimulation that you can vary to give you optimal pleasure. Partners use it before sexual intercourse or some use it after lovemaking.• Using the Sybian leaves you relaxed and refreshed as its vibrating and massaging movements lessens and alleviates stress.• It is long believed that an increase in sexual participation leads to an increase in sexual response. As you get trained by the Sybian and your sexual response improves, you will find that your passion also grows. For those who are adventurous sensually, it will provide a lifetime full of pleasure.The Sybian orgasm sex toy machine comes as a comprehensive, robust and long-lasting package. It comes with several attachments and may be used by a woman by herself or along with her partner before sex in order to get aroused. If you watch the free Sybian porn videos, you can see how much pleasure the users are getting. The Sybian not only greatly stimulates the clitoris on the outside but also arouses the G-spot within. That is when the user experiences a Sybian orgasm.

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Cunnilingus Tips & Techniques: Ways to Keep Her Begging for More!

moderator — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 06:34:19 +0000

For men, being good at lovemaking is a great skill which you can use to pleasure your lover – but there are many aspects that you need to familiarize yourself with in order to become a master lover. One of these skills that men should be adept at is cunnilingus. Cunnilingus: The BasicsFirst up, let’s define what cunnilingus is all about. Basically, this is considered to be an aspect in the art of love making where you will use your mouth and tongue to provide amazing sensations on a woman’s vagina.

Did you know that a lot of women can reach the big “O” simply through oral sex? Although orgasms can be given when you have sex, there are many ways to prolong a woman’s orgasm or even give her multiple orgasms – which can be achieved if you’re adept at giving cunnilingus. Tips & Techniques for Cunnilingus that Will Keep Her Wanting More! Now, here are a variety of ways that you can perform cunnilingus to keep your woman begging for more:

- Remember that the number one trick to pleasing a woman and bring her to a huge orgasm is by being sensitive to her needs in bed. For example, if your lover is a woman who’s not afraid to speak her mind out – even in bed – you can probably indulge in some sexy or downright dirty talk while you’re going down on her to keep her begging for more. On the other hand, if your lover is somewhat shy in bed, you can slowly ease her into oral pleasure by smelling, licking and sucking her love juices right off of your finger and gently tell her how wonderful she tastes. She’ll warm her way through it and who knows – she might even be hot enough to return the favor!- You should familiarize yourself with parts of a woman’s nether regions so that you would know how to proceed. The magic button is actually the clit, that small knob of pink flesh located at the upper juncture of her vaginal lips. When performing cunnilingus, don’t target the clit right away because it is utterly sensitive. – Take the time to lick her like an ice cream cone using the flat of your tongue to stimulate the nerves in the vaginal area. Gradually build up the intensity, use gentle suctions and insert two fingers in her vagina once you see that she’s really into it. With these cunnilingus tips and techniques, you’ll have any woman begging for more, marveling about your masterful skills in bed!

David Tottenham works for the Utopia Supplies online sex shop, a UK-based sex shop which stocks thousands of high quality sex toys.If you want to give cunnilingus that extra “kick”, then why not experiment with a clit teaser?
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Watch Hot Webcam Chicks for the Ultimate Experience!

moderator — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 00:06:56 +0000

Webcam adult sites came into existence so as to offer the patrons even more and better features. Earlier, the hot webcam chicks would be filmed while in the process of indulging in sexual intercourse or lovemaking so as to provide explicit content to willing viewers. The whole experience turns out to be all the more exciting if they are live and their quality and content will depend on the kind of adult site you opt for. There are quite a few sites where you will find many a gorgeous American cam girl to choose from.Almost all sites have a trial period within which you can explore it and see if it is good enough to satisfy your sexual fantasies. Once you have selected a suitable adult site, you may then opt for paid membership which will allow you to have full access to the site everyday for a certain period. There are plenty of hot webcam chicks to choose from; these American cam girls do their job well and know exactly what to do to please you. Besides, you can tell them whatever you want them to do and turn all your sexual fantasies into a reality.The American cam girls will let the patron view the hottest of images and this kind of 3d webcam sex is turning out to be one popular alternative for real sex! And there is no fear of catching AIDS or any other disease which is contagious. This kind of webcam dating uses hot webcam chicks to entice the users to come and share their wildest fantasies. You can browse through various galleries to choose from the several American cam girls who are going to be filmed for you online with no censoring. You may also put up your own ads with a false name of course if you wish to keep your identity secret and mention your sexual preferences and interests to make it easier to find like-minded people.Most adult websites include adult video clips that really give you a thrill; live webcams are normally used and the American cam girls don’t leave much to your imagination. Hot webcam chicks are offered on these nude webcams and their clothing will not really cover what you want to see as they are filmed in the most incredible sexual positions giving you a good view of everything that you really want to see. But even before you decide to access some of these adult websites, make sure that this is the kind of stuff you want to see so as to enhance your physical sex life; be aware that the American cam girls will show you all. So do not be shocked by what you see when you watch these hot webcam chicks. The main aim of this 3d webcam sex is to make your sexual fantasies come true without taking any risks.

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5 Super Tips to Help Couples Keep Sex Hot

moderator — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 18:08:31 +0000

Lots of couples complain about sex getting boring or routine. They must not realize what you’re about to learn: That if you’ve been together awhile, hot sex takes work, as well as play. Here are 5 super ways to keep things sizzling in the bedroom.1. Learn to be seductive. You don’t have to be obvious about it. Just by using small, gentle touches of your partner’s thigh, arm, or tush, you can send a signal that you’re thinking about your partner as more than a friend. You can also give your partner more than just a peck on the cheek—really grab your partner and give them a breathtaking kiss that will leave them wanting more.

2. Set aside extra lovemaking time once a week, or once a month. If you pretty much always have a 15 or 20 minute block of time for sex, you are pretty much always going to do the same thing over and over again. By setting aside more time, you allow yourselves time to explore each other’s bodies, new positions, or new techniques.

3. Be an active student of sex. Yes, study sex as a topic. Study erotic books, mainstream books about sex, articles about sex to learn more about the body and the psychology of pleasure. The more you know, the better lover you become, and the less routine your sex life will be.

4. Own up. What is it about sex that has made it so dull lately? Maybe it’s not your partner, maybe it’s you! Maybe you’re the one who has been withdrawn or putting less effort into your sex life. When you put less energy into it, your partner feels that and pulls away, too. So put a little effort into having sex and see if your partner doesn’t respond in kind.

5. Spend more time together after sex. After play—the time you spend together after you’ve had orgasm—is a very rewarding reason to have sex. Couples feel closer physically and emotionally during this time. Don’t just fall asleep like you’ve taken a knockout pill after sex. Snuggle up and discover the further rewards of having sex. It might just make everything leading up to sex hotter the next time you make love.Everything you do in life has the potential to become routine. It’s up to you to keep things exciting. Follow these tips and sex never needs to be dull!

Dr. Stephanie Buehler is a psychologist and sex therapist. You can instantly download her free ebook, Sexual Discoveries: 25 Secrets for Incredible Passion at http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com.
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Her Screaming Orgasm – Secret Tips and Techniques Revealed!

moderator — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 11:52:09 +0000

There has always seemed to be some great big secret about the female orgasm and how women can achieve an intense and massive one. Many women have gone their entire lives without one, leaving their partner frustrated because they cannot help them achieve this so much wanted release. Their wait and frustration is now over. This article will tell you some simple tips on how to help your woman achieve an ultimate orgasm while pleasuring yourself at the same time. First off you both have to relax. One of the many reasons women fail to achieve orgasms is they feel as if they are thought of as sexual objects. Women think of sex as an emotional and physical experience. So by relaxing and taking your time with your partner and letting her know you do care about her will help her to better enjoy herself and achieve a more relaxed state. Female orgasms take place as much in the mind as they do in the body. Next, you should always include plenty of foreplay. You need to keep in mind that there are many erogenous zones aside from the obvious ones. As much as eighty percent of women do not feel their partners kiss them enough, so make sure this is at the top of your list. The neck is an excellent erogenous zone to start with. Try kissing or gently nibbling up and down her neck. This is sure to get them aroused. Try stroking her bottom or gently kissing to show her there is nothing to be self-conscious about. Most women have great anxiety about there behinds and the more you let them know you love it the more they will be able to relax and enjoy your exploring. Once they are fully relax and enjoying your touch, intense orgasm can be easily achieved.Another thing to add is oral sex. Women love oral sex and many women can orgasm easily just from oral sex than actual sexual intercourse. It brings great pleasure by clitoris stimulation of her sensitive G Spot. In fact, it helps her achieve multiple orgasms with continuous stimulation. With this in mind, take your time. Oral sex does not simply mean a quick lick and you are done. The longer the oral sex lasts the more in tune your partner will be. Ten to fifteen minutes is a good rule of thumb.Make sure to go slow during lovemaking! As most men know, women frequently complain that male partners get off too quickly. Try to slow down or even try to change up the pace. Go slow at times, fast at others, and then slow back down. A little teasing always goes a long way. Breathe deeply and slowly as this will help to prolong sex and help you to synchronize your breathing. This is a very erotic technique to try in aiding her to achieve that ultimate orgasm.To learn more about female orgasm, grab your free copy of My Only Sex Guide – For Men today at http://www.MyOnlySexGuide.com

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Arousing A Woman With Great Foreplay Skills!

moderator — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 06:13:12 +0000

One of the most successful ways to guarantee not only an enjoyable sex experience but also an amazing orgasm for both partners is having great foreplay techniques. Many people however do not know what foreplay consists of nor are they sure how to properly perform it. There are so many ways to conduct foreplay that the list is endless. Some you may already be doing and not even realize that it is considered foreplay. Here are several foreplay ideas to help you spice up the bedroom during lovemaking that you may never have even thought were foreplay.First off, every part of the body is great for foreplay. Trace your fingers up and down their body and around all curves. Make sure to include their buttocks and legs as these are normally areas most feel most self-conscious about. This will help your partner to feel more comfortable and relaxed. Try nibbling as well, this will only heighten the arousal and get your partner into the mood that much more quickly. Gently kissing on the back of the neck and the ears with a bit of nibbling will get things steamy in no time as well. Once things start to get a little too steamy, try to cool things down with an ice cube. Run the ice cube all over until it is completely melted. This will not only cool things off but will give you a reason to heat them back up. Ice on hot skin gives a very erotic feeling that you will both enjoy. Swap off rubbing each other down whenever it starts to feel a bit too cool. Fruit also works on these same lines. The tasteful difference is you will be able to lick the juice off, giving both of you a bit of a treat. Plus there are also fruits such as grapes that freeze quite well and can be used in place of the ice cube. Just be sure not to choke on them.To heat things back up you can use some hot and even flavored massage oil. You can give each other massages while nibbling and licking the lotion away. This is not only relaxing but also leaves you feeling hot and bothered. Many times this same lotion doubles as lubrication if you want to bring toys into the loop. If you have flavored lotion you can blindfold your partner and have your partner try to guess the flavor by sucking it off your fingers or simply by the smell of their skin. The brain is as important as any other muscle when it comes to sex. The more you entertain the mind the more turned on you will become.Now lastly keep in mind that great foreplay tips does not have to start in the bedroom. You can start while in the car, cooking dinner, or any where else you may happen to be. If you are apart you can even send a naughty text message or email to let them know you are thinking of them at work. Send them a naughty story or call to tell them what you want to do when they get home. Just leave a hint to let them know what they can expect. Above all foreplay is about being sensual, so as long as you are both comfortable with it, the sky’s the limit.To learn more about foreplay techniques and female orgasm, grab your free copy of My Only Sex Guide – For Men today at http://www.MyOnlySexGuide.com

Offer Her Multiple Orgasms tonight!

moderator — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 00:06:53 +0000

Many women can experience orgasm simply by using a different sexual position during lovemaking. Having a range of intimate sexual position provides different arousing experience for female when orgasm. Some positions can make them feel kinkier during sexual intercourse, or some may put woman in positions that can easily stimulate her sensitive g spot which are sexually pleasing.Some of the best female orgasm positions that you can use are the doggy style position, the 69 positions, and legs wide open. By simply trying a new position, you may seem like the greatest lover ever to your girlfriend or wife. The doggy style position is done the best on a soft bed. The female will need to be on all fours. When she is on all fours, she should have her hips slightly tilted toward the ceiling. This will give you the best angle to get to the most sensitive areas that she has. Once you have her in this position, you can begin to perform oral sex. This position is also great for sexual intercourse as well. You will need to enter her from behind. In this position, some women may even enjoy the occasional anal play also. The 69 position is one of the best positions that you can do. It is awesome because you both are in the best position possible for your own pleasure. To accomplish this position you will need to have your head at your partners groin while their head as at your groin. This can be done with one person on top of the other or while lying side by side. This position is best done with the female on the bottom. This will allow you to give a female an orgasm without her being able to get away. If you are confused about how to do this position all you need to do is look at the number 69 and picture yourself in that position. The legs wide open method is great because you can just dive right in. This position is accomplished by laying your partner on her back and spreading her legs open. Her legs should be fully extended and slightly raised up. You can hold her legs up for her so that you have complete and free access to her. You can go right for her clitoris and insert your tongue in her. You can also use this position for sexual intercourse. This is a great position to use so that you can play with her clitoris while having sex. This position is great for giving your partner multiple orgasms because you have complete access to her clitoris and g-spot. To learn more about female multiple orgasms, grab your free copy of My Only Sex Guide – For Men today at http://www.MyOnlySexGuide.com

Is your Sex Life Boring?

moderator — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 23:56:28 +0000

A recent study found that in 2 years of marriage, the women’s interest in sex had dropped off about 50%. There was also a lot less intercourse per week.

As a sexologist I get to talk to many men and women about sex. The funny thing is that most people I talk to tell me that they think others are having a much greater sex life than they are. Generally they say that their own sex is pretty boring and non exciting. The longer the couple has been together the more boring sex seems to have become. Of course there are couples that have great sex and have been together for ages. These couples are rare in my experience.

So what can one do to spice up ones sex life? I like to think of sex in 3 flavours.

The first one is partner connection. Women generally love this style of lovemaking. In this flavour the emotional connection with your lover is most important. Generally, couples when they first fall in love have a lot of partner connection in sex. There is a lot of eye gazing, touch and emotions flowing and sex is really just great. It seems to flow and there is much hugging, touch and foreplay.

So how does one get more of this connections with your partner. One tip in sex to get more of this flavour is to open your eyes during sex. I find most couple do not even take a look at their lover. The eyes connect and the emotions can flow thought he eyes. for the more advanced, I suggest to open your eyes during orgasm. Most men find this a challenge but it can be done!

The second flavour of lovemaking is what I like to call trance. In this style one goes into oneself and is totally in ones own fantasy, sensations or a trance like state. Eyes are closed as the connection with your partner is not important. Most men seem to like trance.

I did have a lover that loved going into trance. However, I just felt I was a travel agent taking her to amazing places. Since I could not come along I felt unsatisfied. The touch was one way and I found this frustrating. I did communicate this and she did start to touch me more.

The third flavour is role playing. This can be a great deal of fun. One can act out ones fantasies or take on roles of the sexual healer or priest. How about becoming animals?. Bondage games fall into this type of play. Generally this is more challenging for most people. However playing roles really can spice up your sex life.

With my clients I suggest they start to explore the flavours that they are weak on. Most couples do not play roles as it is a bit scary. I suggest to pass through is fear and really start to explore.

If you have boring sex, you are actually committed to this on some level. Challenge your lover to do something different and you might have to compromise too. Suggest your lover takes the lead in trying something new too.

Above all, have fun.

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