Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had?
You’re not alone.
Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.
Michael Webb, author of the best selling THE ROMANTIC’S GUIDE, has said, “If you’re shy or embarrassed and even if you’ve tried everything but failed miserably — anybody can add more fire to the bedroom!”
Here are five really simple ways to make your lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate — (Even starting tonight):
1. Find your partner’s hidden zones…
I call these hidden zones because many people do not realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention.
While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm.
Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.
2. Set a romantic mood…
People often think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is too cliche. Are they kidding! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.
Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so cliche because people enjoy it so much? Point made.
3. Give them a sensual massage…
Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further and give your partner a sensual massage that makes them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.
Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by having them slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss, caress and slowly transition under the sheets where a massage of another kind can take place.
And no, you do not need years of study to give a great massage. Just grab some candles and music, and bless your partner with an experience they’ll never forget.
4. Please your partner with more oral sex…
Did you know that oral sex is a great way to strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. Not to mention it is great for men who want to relax without pressure to perform, and for women who cannot reach orgasm from only intercourse. In short, it is an important part of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and women.
LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straight away when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation.
GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet around the clitoris with your tongue.
5. Constantly explore and try new things…
If I could only give you one piece of advice for better lovemaking, it would be this: become adventurous and creative.
Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a game.
Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust, but it is HOW you do it and the way you make your partner feel that really counts.
By dedicating time to finding new things, you can turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to come.
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