Dear Couple,
Remember at the beginning of your relation how strong was the desire you felt one for another ? How a single look, a simple move would make you shiver ? There is a word for that : passion.
Today ? Like 99% of lovers living together, as years pass, passion starts to decline. Routine slowly but surely, like a deadly virus, takes it’s place and can ruin your couple.
Wow, what a terrible scene ! Let’s get rid of it immediately.
The positive thing is you want to see your love life improving, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this article right ? So follow me and be sure to apply what is written here. There’s nothing better than concrete when it comes to sex.
1. Have a look !
Are you still looking one at each other ? That’s a simple advice hey ? Now think about it. Do you have these little stars sparkling in your eyes when you gently cover your partner’s whole body from head to toes ? Do you mind if I cough ? Take the test ! I insist you have to be romantic in everything you do. It’s useless trying to seduce if you act like a beast. It can be truly exciting but at this point your couple needs softness. So, you’re both reading in the sofa (nice books but wouldn’t it be great to have some sex on the same sofa ?) Take your eyes off the book and look at your other “half”, slowly, very slowly. Start with the head, lips included, and calmly lower your eyes. Neck, shoulders, upper arms, breast, tummy, sex, thighs, hands, legs, feet… No matter what happens. Just do it. She’s in the kitchen, look at her. He’s watching tv, gaze. Remember, slowly, gently with tenderness in the eyes. Opening a little your lips would also be a good idea. Doing this in public places (when having a coffee for example) is also terribly exciting…
ok, on to step 2.2. Speaking is great too.
Use the power of words. A couple of blunt sentences whispered at the other’s ears.
Imagine having dinner with friends. Your lover approaches and says “I’m so hot I want you now.”
She’s so close you can feel her tensed breast. He’s so excited, you can see his sex growing. And please, don’t stop looking. (check tip number1 above). Use words. The more they are unexpected, the more exciting they will be. Phone calls are fantastic. Whether at home or at the office, if you start a hot conversation, you’ll see how amazing the effect will be. You will go wild !3. Writing
A Love letter is fine. If it contains erotic words, you multiply it’s power by 1000. Now how should you deliver the letter ? You can put it on the bed, or, if you can make it, send her the letter, privately, at work, using a courrier. Everything is fine as long as it’s unusual. Something like “hey, I wrote this letter for you, here it is” should be avoided. You’re special, your partner is too, so do something special. (and exciting)4. Romantism
Restaurant, Flowers and Lingerie are my favorite.
So this number 4 is probably for you gentlemen. Buy lingerie online if you feel shy but the most exciting thing to do is buying lingerie together. Imagine what could happen in the fitting room…
Send her flowers and invite her for a great dinner. The restaurant can become a magic place for erotic games. Ask her to discreetly take her lingerie off. And both eat as if you were eating the other’s body, with sensuality.
Wow it’s getting hot in here.5. Take your camera
ho, ho, ho. That’s terribly exciting. Whether you want to take pictures or create your own erotic movie, acting in front of your private camera can be fantastic. Remember : sensuality. If you’re a woman, why not film or take shots of yourself and let your lover watch them when he comes home. Your mobile phone can be extremely useful. Take the movie and send him (or her), stripping & caressing. There are numerous ways of playing exciting games with your image.
Ok that’s it for today. I hope you’re as excited as I was when writing this article.
6. A last suggestion.
You will find many exciting tips and advices at Michael Webb’s Lovemaking Site. He was featured in media countless times. From CBS to the Oprah show. Take a look, you’ll learn a lot.
Thanks for reading.
Stay tuned for other tips.
And after you applied them, keep me updated !
To your Sexual Success !
Christophe Tissier
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