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Now this is way more exciting than most green gizmos and the perfect thing to take to a desert island. The Earth Angel, the world’s first eco-friendly vibrator, will never let you down as (like all the best men) it doesn’t need batteries! A few quick turns of the wrist and hey presto - you’re away. It’s fully charged and ready to rock ‘n’ roll for around thirty minutes which, as far as we’re concerned, beats some people we know…
100% environmentally friendly, all parts of the Earth Angel, including the packaging, have been produced from recycled materials. So now you can get an extra buzz from the fact you’re saving the planet as well as pleasuring yourself. We tried it and we loved it - even the handle cranking bit kinda added to the anticipation. Go grab one for yourself and find out what all the fuss is about:
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Since our book of the month is the brilliant Blow by Blow, I thought I would extend the theme and talk about the honey blow job. Yes, folks, it’s time to sweeten things up and get all sticky in the process. All you have to do is smear on a little honey before either of you get licking - the great thing about this technique is that it’s also one that works for the girls!
Honey is a natural antiseptic so there’s no need to worry about injuring yourself and it adds a certain tackiness which can prove very exciting when/if you go on to have full intercourse. In fact, honey is the perfect choice if you’re having problems with over-lubrication or if you simply feel you’d like a little more resistance. Runny honey works best but it’s up to you to experiment. And if you’re the fussy sort make sure you keep it away from your best sheets/sofa/carpet - this kind of sexy fun can get seriously messy!
Think there is no such thing as the ‘best position’ for achieving mind-blowing orgasms?
Think again!
However, the best positions for men and women are different, just as physically we are different. Men and women need different stimuli in different places and at a range of pressures and intensity. Just by moving an inch in any direction while in these positions, you can dramatically change the feeling and intensity of a position.
Take your time to find the best angles for the both of you, while using these positions.
The Best Position For Women To Climax
The reverse missionary is identical to the traditional missionary except that she is on top. This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.
Since you typically want the women to orgasm first, this would be one of your first positions and then you can move to a position where the man has full control
for his orgasm.
You can vary your leg positions by both of you spreading your legs, or by alternating the one who has them spread and the one who has them together.
The Best Position For Men To Orgasm
Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It is great for guys because it gives them full control.
This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows you to fondle her breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. She can also stimulate herself by touching her clitoris in this position.
For those of you who haven’t tried it, she kneels before you (some women enjoy it more if their head is down on a pillow) and you enter her from behind. The main benefit for the guy is a view of her beautiful bottom and being able to see the action, while getting incredibly deep penetration (men with above average penis size need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).
The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking Positions
Of course, books show dozens, if not hundreds, of sexual positions, but the reality is that there are maybe only eight basic positions, with slight variations for each.
So what happens when you’ve tried all eight positions to death? Let’s face it - lovemaking generally ends up being the same. That’s why you should explore ALL aspects of each other’s sexuality. I don’t mean anything freaky here. I just mean cultivate an adventurous spirit. Turn foreplay into a game. Add a prop or two.
Try a new place. How about starting off with a plate of fruits? There are literally HUNDREDS of ways you can make your lovemaking more exciting, passionate and fulfilling long-term, rather than just trying new positions. The most important thing is to retain a sense of adventure. A sense of humour also helps!
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500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
Here are five really simple ways to instantly make your
lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate…
1. Find your partner’s “hidden” zones
I call these “hidden” zones because many people
don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the
body LOVE attention.
While many of these zones are obvious, like the
lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are
also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed,
can drive your partner wild and even intensify
their orgasm.
Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair
are all really sensitive areas that love to be
stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay
caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner.
2. Set a romantic mood
People often think that using candles, music,
incense and even rose petals to set the mood of
your lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding!
Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.
Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone
went to all the trouble to create a special
lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years
to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people
enjoy it so much? Point made.
3. Give them a sensual massage
Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further
and give your partner a sensual massage that makes
them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make
it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.
Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by
having them slowly undress during the massage. Then
kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the
sheets” where a massage of another kind can take
place.
And no, you don’t need years of study to give a
great massage. Just grab some candles and music,
and bless your partner with an experience they’ll
never forget.
4. Please your partner with more oral sex
Did you know that oral sex is a great way to
strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It
takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody
have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s
great for men who want to relax without pressure to
perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from
only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part
of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and
women.
LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on
the penis straight away when, actually, they should
start with some playful teasing and soft touches.
This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it
heightens his anticipation.
GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their
tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the
vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should
lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip
to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet
around the clitoris with your tongue.
5. Constantly explore and try new things
If I could only give you one piece of advice for
better lovemaking, it would be this: become
adventurous and creative.
Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except
your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it
somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a
game.
Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no
matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,
but it’s HOW you do it and the way you make your
partner feel that really counts.
By dedicating time to finding new things, you can
turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure
your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and
intimate for years to come.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
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Yup - all you have to do is slip on a pair of red panties under that respectable little suit and they will all be falling at your feet without quite knowing why. More profound than it sounds, this is actually based on sound esoteric principles. Red is, of course, the colour of passion but it is also representative of your Base Chakra, or energy centre located at your groin, and is the colour of Mars, planet of lust and energy.
It is no accident that for centuries women have used rouge on their cheeks to simulate the flush of lust and red on their lips to echo the colour of their genitalia. In colour magic it is a highly charged harbinger of action and passion. By wearing it right next to your Base Chakra you are increasing the energy vibrating from this point, drawing the cosmic equivalent of an arrow pointing right at the energetic epicentre of your sensuality.
In some South American countries women even put on a new pair of red knickers on New Year’s Day to ensure a year full of love and passion. If you don’t believe me try it and see - but keep it to yourself. Remember, contain and sustain the energy by keeping quiet about your magical efforts - besides, just slipping them on should bring a naughty little smile to your lips and a wiggle to your hips.